2013/02/24

☀ Bahagia itu Sederhana


Good afternoon blogsphere! It’s been such a long time since the last time i blogged! Now, I am back! Setelah lama berkutat didepan meja belajar, ulangan harian yang ga ada habisnya, tugas yang super banyak, pr gausah ditanya, finaly bisa ngeblog lagi \m/. Topik yang gua pilih buat gua posting kali ini yaitu Bahagia itu sederhana. Apasih definisi bahagia buat lo pada? Nah, di posting kali ini nih gue mau jelasin definisi menurut diri gue apa kebahagiaan itu. Jaman sekarang nih ya, orang-orang susah banget buat merasa dirinya itu udah bahagia. Ya namanya manusia ya pasti slalu mengharapkan lebih dan lebih. Dan kalo harapan itu ga sesuai sama ekspetasi awal, kita bakal kecewa. Ya kadang gue sih ga berani berharap lebih terhadap apapun karna gue ngerti gimana rasanya kalo harapan ga sesuai sama kenyataan. Apapun yang kelebihan pasti hasilnya ga baik deh. Curcol dikit gapapa ya ;;) wkwk. Stop wasting your time for those people who treat you like a second fucking choice! You Only Live Once. Berusahalah bahagia setiap harinya. Selagi masih ada kesempatan buat bahagia, selagi masih punya gigi, selagi masih dikasih kesehatan sama Tuhan, tersemyumlah. There are so many reasons to be happy. You only need to pack your own happiness as beautiful as possible until you feel glad you've deserved it. Cause happiness will never come to those who don’t appreciate what they already have.

Buat gue, bahagia itu superrrr sederhana! Shopping, tinggal dideket orang tua, ketemu temen, denger lagu, nonton tv, ngobrol, ngegosip, ngelakuin hal-hal yang super konyol, makan-makanan enak, isengin orang, bahkan nih yaa dalam keadaan damn sucks sperti belajar, ribut sama temen, sakit hati, dimaki-maki orang, perpiashan, sindir-sindiran, ngerjain pr, pergi les, itu udah bahagia! Definisi bahagia menurut gue itu ga selalu pas keadaan lagi baik aja. Berbahagialah lo pada selagi Tuhan masih kasih hal-hal buruk yang menimpa lu pada. After you got hurt, you’re not the same anymore. Remember? Pains make us stronger. Inget loh, just because things aren’t good now, it doesn’t mean they will be that way forever. Sometimes life has to get really ugly before it gets pretty! Pengalaman pribadi gue ya, gue cukup bahagia, puas dan seneng dengan hidup gue yang sekarang gue jalanin. Ya emang si, ga semua apa yang dijidat gue dan apa yang gue mau langsung gue dapet. Ya kadang-kadang gue perlu berkorban bahkan berjuang setengah mati buat dapet apa yang gue mau. Dan kadang gue juga harus mengiklaskan apa yang gue ga bisa dapetin. Tapi ya itu namanya hidup. Gue bersyukur hidup gue bisa dibilang bahagia tapi complicated. Dengan demikian gue bisa menyimpulkan hidup gue itu berwarna dan ga flat-flat aja. Namanya manusia, pasang surut itu hal biasa. Coba bayangin, hidup lo itu terus berjalan gapake masalah ato tantangan apapun. Ngebosenin ga sih? Hahaha.

Bahagia itu biasanya diukur dari tingkat kepuasan kita. Well, manusia itu emang ga pernah ada puasnya. Cobalah bahagia disetiap keadaan. Everyday may not be good. But there is something good in everyday. Lu pada pasti pernah ngerasain hidup ini kok kayaknya gitu-gitu aja ya, cape banget perasaan. Kadang juga kalo lagi sibuk pasti pada mikir, duh kenapa ya gue mesti ngelewatin masa ini. Don’t worry, everything happens for a reason. Menurut gue, kunci dari bahagia itu “Complain less, appreciate more”. Nah balik lagi nih ke atas, apa yang kita terima belum tentu kita bisa merasa bahagia. Selalu aja merasa kurang ini dan kurang itu. Coba deh belajar menghargai atas apa yang lu punya. Dengan begitu dalem sejenak, hidup bisa jadi lebih bahagia.

Life's been so good to me, even though it isn't perfect, but I’m so thankful for what i have yet and what i had. About this beautiful life, for giving me such wonderful family, friends around me, and a tons of a good luck! Hoooaaaa! How lucky I am to ever have so damn pretty cute awesome life. We were born to live fast!  We need to realize that life’s too short to cry over people that aren’t crying over you. So smile while you still have teeth and learn to appreciate what you had. Do what makes you happy. Love your got, and thankful to our God. Care what other people think and you become their prisoner. Care what God thinks and he will set you free. Stay “Hakuna Matata”. Worry less, Smile more. That you will be blessing by a countless miracles. 
 
"Bahagia, bukan berarti mendapatkan semua yang kita inginkan, namun dapat mensyukuri semua yang kita dapatkan".

Much Love,

The Lucky One

2013/02/16

50Ways To Say Goodbye by Train


Have you ever felt upset as a hell about someone but you can't express it? I think this song can represent your feelings. This song is too good too be true! ;A;
Enjoy this song (;


"50 Ways To Say Goodbye"

My heart is paralyzed
My head was over-sized
I'll take the high road like I should
You said it's meant to be
That it's not you, it's me
You're leaving now for my own good

That's cool, but if my friends ask where you are I'm gonna say

She went down in an airplane
Fried getting suntanned
Fell in a cement mixer full of quicksand
Help me, help me, I'm no good at goodbyes!
She met a shark under water
Fell and no one caught her
I returned everything I ever bought her
Help me, help me, I'm all out of lies
And ways to say you died

My pride still feels the sting
You were my everything
Some day I'll find a love like yours (a love like yours)
She'll think I'm Superman
Not super minivan
How could you leave on Yom Kippur?

That's cool, but if my friends ask where you are I'm gonna say

She was caught in a mudslide
Eaten by a lion
Got run over by a crappy purple Scion
Help me, help me, I'm no good at goodbyes!
She dried up in the desert
Drowned in a hot tub
Danced to death at an east side night club
Help me, help me, I'm all out of lies
And ways to say you died

I wanna live a thousand lives with you
I wanna be the one you're dying to love...
But you don't want to

That's cool, but if my friends ask where you are I'm gonna say
That's cool, but if my friends ask where you are I'm gonna say

She went down in an airplane
Fried getting suntanned
Fell in a cement mixer full of quicksand
Help me, help me, I'm no good at goodbyes!
She met a shark under water
Fell and no one caught her
I returned everything I ever bought her
Help me, help me, I'm all out of lies

She was caught in a mudslide
Eaten by a lion
Got run over by a crappy purple Scion
Help me, help me, I'm no good at goodbyes!
She dried up in the desert
Drowned in a hot tub
Danced to death at an east side night club
Help me, help me, I'm all out of lies
And ways to say you died!

“Your time is precious.  Don’t waste it on someone who doesn't realize that you are too.”
“If they treat you like an option, leave them like a choice.”

Jakarta 2013,
The Lucky One XD